SSS- Thanks for checking in on me. Work has been so crazy, Between end of month close, and the big System conversion we are going through, I'm ready to pull my hair out. I deserve a vacation. Things with Xh are going great, we are becoming best friends and are spending as much time together as possible.
Update: The birthday party a couple of weekends ago was wonderful, we had a great time. Last weekend he stayed with me we went to dinner with some friends of mine. We had an enjoyable time. My friends think he is great. One tense moment sunday... His truck would not start, dead battery! Well long story short I locked the door when I got out of his truck he came behind me and before I could tell him the door was locked he shut it. While he was shutting the door he asked me if I had his keys. Well no! He got grumpy and some what angry, he let his frustrations out by cursing a lot. I did not try to fix it or make myself misreable trying to get him in a good mood. I called a locksmith and left it at that. We have laughed about this several times since 10 minutes after it happened. This weekend I am staying at his house. It is going to rain here all weekend so the plans we have will most likely be cancelled. But thats okay! There is nothing wrong with long naps and curling up on the couch watching movies!
Last night I went to his house after work, I stopped by the market to pick up something to cook for dinner. He was so suprized when he came home to a home cooked meal. He thanked me several times and we cleaned the kitchen together. He made several comments about how this is the way it should be and that he cannot wait until we live together. He was so appreciative, constantly told me how special he felt and thanked me numberous times. He made me laugh when he told me he didn't know I could cook like this. Background info: when we were married the only thing I knew how to cook came from a box, ie. hamburger helper, macaroni & cheese, and cereal! Wow how things have changed!! I'm an excellent cook now.
Oh by the way there is another open house at his house tomorrow. Hopefully someone will be interested in it. What confuses me is that his house is beautiful, every ungrade you could imagine and decently priced for the quality of home it is. There has not even been one offer on it. We have talked about it and I think I am going to move in to the house when my lease is up (if it has not sold). But, and I have made this perfectly clear, it will stay on the market and he will do what ever he has to do in order to sell it. Am I wrong for this? Any view or opinion would be appreciated.
I hope all of you are well. Hugs and prayers!
Halo
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.