Posted by Z 26/02/2016

Z I am glad you find strength in me and it is useful to you. I'd be curious to know more about what strength you see in me.

This is one of the easier questions you've asked...I see strength in any man or woman who continues to do what they believe is right, despite being tired, lonely or overwhelmed.

You have chosen to stand for your marriage and hold your vows to a woman who is hurting and cannot give that same back to you right now. There are not many men who would stand for their family and kids like you have even though you have been battered by this storm.

I see it as strength.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together