Can you do it with NO EXPECTATIONS, calmly and rationally?
Until two people want to have a relationship and meet each others needs it is unlikely that this chat will have much success.
Love is a Choice and both people must choose to DO it.
DB'ing is about speaking with ACTIONS and not words, controlling ourselves and not someone else.
So before you DO this what do you think will be the results?
So what if during your "chat" wife was to reveal to you that she is depressed, has cancer, was in a coma, has a life threatening disease, mental illness, thyroid condition or some other reason that she can no longer perform.
How would that change the way you feel and what you would DO?
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
