OK everyone here is today's problem. She drops of S10 (late of course). She tells me she is not happy. She says, I have nothing where I am, everything is here and I'm not welcome in this house.

How do I validate her?

I'm dying to say - you left, these are the consequences. I know that is not the right thing to do.

What is the right way to validate and support?

e.g. I see that your current situation is not ideal. It must be awful>......

Let me know some ideas on how to deal with her statements?

M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017