My W has been manipulating things to make me feel like I'm always the bad guy. I'm not mistake free, but this marriage took two people. Now that I'm away from her I'm gaining some perspective and it hurts a lot to know she did this to me.
TJ I caught up on your sitch as many of these sad stories have some sort of relevance to all of us. And I do concur with you how messed up it is that many marriages are like this today...ending up in ruin
I was reading your thread and also CWOL response about exposing things. I have thought about this myself with my sitch but similar to CWOL it could hurt me alot in the D proceedings and she knows I know...which to me...is enough.
Believe in Karma and that what comes around goes around .....so just do what is right and keep taking care of the young ones and you will find your way.
If you were made always to be the bad guy, then I hope you find one day the right type of relationship that you feel great about being with that special person....it will happen!
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....
