I posted in DDJ's thread. I think the advice might apply to you as well. Let me know. I'm happy to give you some advice, if you want it, or if you just need to talk. I'm not on all the time, but do check every couple days. Sandi really helped me. I owe her a lot. Let me know how I can give back a little.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)