Journaling: Things have been going great, and wouldn’t you know it Xow dropped a bomb yesterday. She might not have a job after Monday. Xh has been so stressed about his finances lately; if she does loose her job it will only make matters worse. We stayed on the phone until late last night, he complained about Xow and her irresponsibility. I did not try to fix things, I validated and told him that I will support him in what ever he chooses to do. One of his biggest concerns is protecting his credit. He filed bankruptcy a few years ago and is now at the point where he is building his credit back. He is constantly telling me how miserable he is and how he wishes he could just leave. He is so very nervous about her leaving him with all the bills and their expensive mortgage. After all she is several years younger than he is and it would be nothing for her to file chapter 11 and rebuild her credit in no time. I know there is nothing I can do or say to make this time easier for him but at-least the good news is that he can see how very stable I am. LOL IMO I think Xh wanted me to tell him that everything will be okay, and that I would move in with him if she were to bail out on him. I hope this does not happen because I have obligations of my own.
We are going out of town this weekend, a friend of ours is having a b-day party. I am so excited I hope all of you are doing well.
Hugs and Prayers
Halo
Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.
