Interesting discovery today - I was reviewing my Kindle list in Amazon and my W recently bought two books around "Polyamory"... this has been a topic she's brought up in the past, but at the time I was seeing it as an excuse to justify the A.

Now that we are separated I would have thought this idea would have been given up, but it appears like she may still be wanting it?

It could definitely explain her behavior (about trying to maintain the R/M)

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17