Hmmm im going to stand in DDj corner here on the D. From what i've read he doesnt want his W or M anymore. I could be wrong, there could be more to the story but only DDJ can answer that.
Does he need to rush it, probably not. I was under the impression that these thing take awhile to finalise. In my country you are actually forced to go to mandatory counselling when you file for a D.
Sandhi put it real, does he want to save the M or not? forget growth or change or whatever. Its does he want to save the M or not?
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.
