Sara, You must give your H time. Wanting to have his kids with him and being afraid that he will have a lot to lose are totally valid reasons for him wanting to stay in the M.
But these reasons will not make you nor him happy in the M. What attracted H to you? Have you somehow lost something in the mad rush that is married life? Do you think you can find that back again? For yourself and not just for H?
Sorry to hear that your H will not be joining you for your graduation. (((Sara)))
But congratulations on your graduation! Put on your game face and enjoy your big day.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
