hey DDJ, my absence has nothing to do with your decision to pursue your divorce. At times, I was too confused with all of your changing thoughts, I had no idea how to reply to your posts. Recently, I've simply been busy with things happening in my life. I didn't get a chance to check this site at all this week until today! However, it looks like you received some fantastic advice from others anyway.
I hope you seek IC and get to the root of your thoughts/feelings about how you view women. You won't be able to have a fulfilling relationship until you're able to connect with others on a deeper level.
In response to your final quote: You are the one that is separating what God has joined together. You are the one that has untied your marriage.
From what I've seen, you have not tried to save your marriage. I don't think that attempt can come from you until you've fixed the things within yourself. There is so much work to be done. I'm sad to see you leaving the site as you could improve so much more, but unfortunately, we can't force people to do things.
