Well, I guess I just feel like I don't know how to implement them. Once the divorce is finalized, I will have no reason to talk to him, especially since we don't have kids, and as of right now, he wants nothing to do with me. I also feel like I need to become a stronger person first, and maybe that will help me implement these rules better. There wasn't anything specific, that's just the general feeling I get when I read over the rules.