Bill- Your post made me laugh(several times)!!! Thanks

Wiley- You are right I am not acting like myself. Have had a couple of emotional days, guess its close to that time of month.
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...thats not the Halo that I think I know..The Halo that I've been posting to, the confident, fun, happy, strong, sexy, NON-WORRYING Halo, simply doesn't think twice about a family get together. Rather she sees it as a CHALLENGE that she will handle just FINE, if she sticks to what got her this far in the first place, and that has to do with having absolutely NO EXPECTATIONS of anything other than HAVING A GOOD TIME.


You are right, I am just worrying to much about the crap I have no control over. I am too strong to let this bother me!! Thanks for the whack with the 2x4, I needed it.

So what if they bring her up! XOw was then and I am now. If I can handle XH talking about XOw (in detail) then this would and should be a piece of cake. Goodness I have spent hundreds of holidays and millions of hours with these people its going to be a no brainer!! LOL

Its funny that you mention this....
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because I've noticed that since you came to piecing and more importantly since you have spent more and more time with your XH, you are losing touch a little with the types of things you were smart enough to do while you were seperated from him. The focus appears to be you trying to be "perfect" and not make mistakes, i.e. playing NOT TO LOSE HIM, rather than..PLAYING TO WIN HIM, kinda like what you did throughout your thread in Newcomers..


I just had a smiilar conversation with a girfriend of mine just this afternoon. We made plans to go have a drink or 10 this evening! Believe it or not I have noticed I have been consumed in him and our R. Well not any longer!! Im getting my edge back (or at least a little of it). You know its a good idea to have them guessing and even worrying a little bit occasionally. Im going to hang up my halo for a couple of days, going to do a little detaching and I AM NOT GOING TO WORRY ABOUT WHAT COULD HAPPEN, just going to make sure I have a good time and that I am the natural me.
Look out gang: The Strong, confident, fun, sexy, spontaneous, Halo is coming back. And this time she's coming back to stay!!

I dont remember being so hormonal in the past when I was on my other maintenance medicine. I will have to look into this.

Hugs and prayers and (2x4 whacks welcome)

Halo Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.