So the move date is Saturday, June 11th for her. I've been trying, successing (I think), about keeping a positive attitude. I've always offered to help her with anything involving her condo/the move, she only needed to ask. I made sure she knew that she had to ask, as I'm not going to volunteer.
Re: the move, she said S would be able to help her and that it was ok if I didn't. Ok, fine with me.
We were discussing a bit about what time she's getting a moving truck, and she realized that S will be working. Her father will be helping her, but it will only be the two of them. She rather sheepishly asked that anything I could offer would help. I said "ok, now that we know a time, I'll see if I can make it."
QUESTION: Should I help her move? Or just make myself scarce? I was thinking about helping move OUT, asking for her key when we are done, and staying back and not helping move IN to the new condo.