After catching up with your thread, I just want to say how happy I am for you at these latest developments. Wiley is a wise person (brief hijack - Wiley, if you care to share your insights for my sitch, see my thread in the signature below) for his suggestions regarding your Easter gathering...the bigger we build things up, the more likely they are to come crashing down. So, play it cool as you have been and things will be fine. Of course, easier said than done.
As it is always easier to give advice than to take/follow it, there are so many positive signs that now is not the time to give in to negative thoughts. Do what got you to this point and you should continue on the path to happiness (with the occassional bump in the road).
Will be update my thread as well, so I hope to see you there.
Take care!!
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