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my buddy is going to let me borrow a book that claims to be a super weapon in getting women to fall for you.


If it's one of those pick-up artist stuff, throw it out. That may work in a bar of drunk women, but don't bother using it with your W.

There are some worthy authors who have written sound advice to both genders informing them what the opposite sex likes & and doesn't like.

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she kept talking about her plans for tonight. she is having friends over for a camp fire. i kept waiting for her to ask me to join. but she didnt. and i sure as heck wasnt going to invite myself over. but im wondering if she wanted me to ask due to her talking about it several times. and asking me what i planned on doing later. i was casual about it. saying oh, i have a couple of maybes for tonight. we'll see what goes down.


Maybe, she did, but that is game playing. Why can't she just invite you over? I would guess it might be her pride......or else she is checking to see if you will pursue her. Don't do it! She needs to work to get you back again!

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she offered me the boys again today, so of course i took them even though its her weekend.....


Time to surprise her and have your own plans for one of the weekends she so freely offers the boys to you. Otherwise, she could start taking it for granted she make plans for every weekend.

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she then said i know that you dont want to hear about this, but i think that you should know, that my feeling for OM are fading fast. that now she realized that it would have never worked. that she would have been unhappy with him. this is a first for her to admit it. she says that the feeling arent totally gone. but that she no longer sees him as an option. that now that the spell is broken, that all his flaws are coming to the surface. etc.


What was your reaction?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!