Dont get me wrong, I did too. But life happens. I committed to for better or for worse. Im not going to bail just because of one mistake. Just because things got worse.
Originally Posted By: DDJ
But just because it happened does not mean it is right.
Of course infidelity isnt right. Im certainly not arguing that it is.
Originally Posted By: DDJ
How have we progressed as a society that the sanctity of M and being with one person no longer has meaning. If we accept emotional abuse, then we must accept infidelity?
What? Of course it has meaning. Im not willing to live in an open marriage. But I AM willing to work though issues that my partner has in order to preserve a marriage after making a mistake.
Your W has clearly made some mistakes. While we dont know the extent, it doesnt really make a ton of difference. If you arent willing to forgive this/these mistakes, then fine, get a divorce. Im not saying that you have to. What I am saying is that linking the divorce to this:
Originally Posted By: DDJ
I need to fix myself
is asinine. Go out and improve yourself. You dont need to be divorced to do that.
I am taking the right action, even though i feel differently. [/quote]
