First Post - Need help (2)

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Kyle,

That sounds like the ostrich sticking their head in the sand approach. You won't get anywhere that way.

You need some help my friend. You need some knowledge about what you should be doing. You need some support to help you through the dark moments. You may need some medical assistance as the emotional turmoil can quickly intertwine with the physical well being.

I am knocking you over the head with a 2x4 my friend because the train is coming right at you and you are frozen in place.

Please, get up, get moving, start doing what is needed to heal.
Watch the Ted Talk by Guy Winch right now. 20 minutes. You need to understand that only you can start the healing process.
Do it for your kids right now if you can't do it for yourself.

Cmon now. You can do it, but only if you want to.