Hey all! My foot seems fine, surprisingly. Opted to not go to my Krav Maga class, though.
Haven't talked to my doc about IC yet, as he is on vacation still. But I will. I still feel it is necessary, especially since I'm getting closer to being D and trying to keep to my promise to myself to move forward while keeping the door cracked open.

Mel, that'sounds interesting what you said about leaving being cathartic for your H. Can you explain more?

My H and I spoke again in person on Monday...we had escrow papers to send in. Again we spoke more of what we each needed in the house. And then had a discussion the next day by phone about things we needed to do before the close of the house. We spoke about his obnoxious L and I actually saw old, self assured H pop out. It was nice to see him come to the conclusion that he was letting her do things he didn't want...and actually say he needed to tell her how things were going to go down and that he just needed her to make it legal. Wishy washy insecure new H was gone for the moment. I know he'll be back though. This is a long road.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.