I guess i dont need to type anything more. Everything I was thinking has been brought up.
Please seek IC for your issues regarding the treatment of women and people in general as you already noted you did not like what you did to her. There is something deeper there that caused this.
Divorcing her is not the answer because you need to work on you.
Her infidleity was wrong. What you did was wrong. Wrong is wrong not one more than the other.
Yes marriage meant monogamy, but i bet there were others vows that you both took that were also broken.
I am not saying just forgive her and brush under the rug. you both need to do some serious work on yourselves before you can work on a marriage.
Listen to the ladies here. we are not wired to think like them but we can learn
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
