Halo,
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Do you think I should apologize to her for all the wrong things that were done or should I just let it ride until she brings it up?


If it were me, I would not apologize, and just let your actions show her you are now doing the RIGHT things. If she brings it up, you sincerely and INSTANTLY AGREE with her that you were EXACTLY as she described during those times, then THANK HER for bringing it up, and mention that you are really working hard at not letting that happen again. DONE.

Thats it, thats all you have to do. You will quickly learn how not defending yourself in the eye of criticism while letting your ACTIONS speak for themselves, goes alot farther than apologizing ever will...

Good luck with the fitness thing, don't forget to drink your 64 oz of water every day..LOL..