Why is Raven black?

[melweb]

Cil--checking in on you. And catching up. Sounds like you have been busy as well. That is a good thing.

I hope you find a IC you like and trust. I have yet to make the plunge (again.) I did like my first one-- he really helped me DB in the early days, but he was $125/hr. YOUCH!! I would rather go "see" someone but in order for insurance to cover it I need a mental health diagnosis. Not that I don't qualify for depression or anxiety (or both), just not sure I want to go that route. I am still mulling it over.

I too wish your H would "change his mind." But like job said, he needs to figure it out on his own. My H said that the act of packing and walking out the door, while I was gone and S15 slept, was cathartic. He admitted it was cowardly, but it needed to be done. Your H seems to need more time.