Coconut...another good counseling approach is EFT (emotionally focused therapy)

A relative of mine went thru it and saved their marriage as it focuses on getting at the core of the disconnect and how to bring you both back to the emotional connection you need

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Me-48
Spouse-WAW 52
Married for 10 years
D7
ILYBNILWY 7/15
Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial
She files 1/2016
Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....