First Post - Need help (2)

[rich4j]

Kyle
Just caught up on your situation& sorry to read it

But it's the common theme alot have gone through. All of a sudden "I need space' and "I am confused" and I , I , I......

I went through it and it wasn't as much of a surprise as we had issues in the past but something did spur it on. I was blind to it and stuck my head in the sand but she needed to figure out if she still loved me while she was having some sort of EA with another.

Regardless, it WILL get better. I struggle weekly and have a good week and bad as she set the timetable for a divorce. I kept hoping and thinking this would change but only has gotten worse.

BUT...some positive stories where things have gotten better over time on the boards.

So figure out what you need out of your relationship and how could you improve in the marriage? What is important for you in any relationship and what was missing?

It's lonely, it stinks, its unfair......but right now you can't control her feelings so focus on what you need.