Its not too late!

[mylittlehalo]

any advise or thoughts on my last post???


Xh and I had plans to go to my nephews Derby race Saturday, He was stress about the DJ job he had later that night. He was worried he would not have enough time to go to nephews things and run all over town to get ready for his DJ job that night. I validated and told him that nephew would understand he had to work, I told him that I would call him and let him tell nephew he had to work and he would see him later. I have this funny feeling he wanted me to put my foot down and tell him that he already had plans with me, or did he just expect me to complain like the old me would have done. I do know he likes strong, confident women, these are a couple of the things that attracted him to me in the first place over 10 years ago. Does he think I am not strong or confident because I am not complaining about things, I dont let the little things get to me or make me angry. Am I reading too much into this? Very confusing IMO I believe I am a strong and confident woman!
I spent all day with my sis & nephew, called XH when I got home at 9pm, did not expect him to answer his phone but he did. We talked for a couple of minutes, then he called me @ 1:15 when he got home, to let me know he made it home okay. I thought it was very considerate to make sure I did not worry.
Last night I was lonely, My mom went out of town and took my dog. I ended up having a nice, quiet night at home, did some reading and watched TV.
hugs and prayers