Hi Asmeds, thanks for your comments. Yes, the rules are certainly easier said than done. And, I agree they may be more geared for the couple who are under the same roof. However, many S continue to use them after separation and even the initial divorce. They use them as a general base guide in how to interact during pick up and drop off with their kids.
These are pretty much bullet points, without the explanations. If you will tell me which ones you feel you are not able to implement in your situation, I would be glad to expound a little more.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!