Roiste - Thanks for posting in my thread. This all looks really good. Id advise you to line up your accomplishments with your goals to see where you are succeeding and where you still have gaps. That can give you some focus going forward into the next few weeks.
Ill spend some time at some point going back through your threads to really understand your situation. As far as I can tell, you are still together with no BD, but you are sensing some distance. You many read the thread from SpinningJenny - shes been doing a lot of work in setting goals on how to try to re-engage her H still living at home with no BD. While your goals are good and focused on you, I think you may want to consider how you interact with your W, and see if there may be some subtle changes you can make that may change her responses to you.
Post by azzork 17 sept 15
Originally Posted By: roiste As I approach one year of really REALLY trying to do whatever it takes to save M, I seem to be exactly where I was last year.
I posted/asked this to SJ this morning. I was recommended to keep a positivity journal of my interactions with W or her actions. Do you have something like that? Its easy to say "nothing has changed" but without actually looking at data, its difficult to ACTUALLY judge whether thats true.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
