Post by Zephyr 20 july 15

I am standing right next to you sir. This morning in was very wary if the doubt of my future. It really does come and go...but it is not a constant anymore.

Your approach is right on and you still have more courage and strength than many I see in the real world who are walking away becsuse it is too hard to stand and look at themselves and make those changes that need to be made.

So with that said...how do we determine what will make us happy. That is the ultimate question. How are you trying to figure THAT out Right now?


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together