We watched a film at the weekend. In it a guy kept saying : "it'll be alright in the end, so if it is not alright, then it is not the end". Seemed like a good way to look at things.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together