Quote: I cannot believe I lost sleep over his bad mood.
I can't either, because you got to where you are at partly because you didn't analyze every word he said..
You appear to be too confident and secure in yourself and the R to allow that to consume your thought process...
As usual, you handled him PERFECTLY, listened to him complain and rant about the OW who is TICKING HIM OFF..and you DIDN'T TRY AND FIX ANYTHING OR APPEAR JEALOUS at the very mention of her name..WELL DONE!
Thats why you're one of the best in the "dbing" biz..
Keeping your emotions for him at a "loving" distance while he is on the last steps of freeing himself from this house mess he's in, is the WISEST approach..Because in the end, YOU get the calls like the one at 5:30 a.m...NOT THE OW..
