What Should I be doing (4)

[DDJ]

I couldn't even look at the train smash that were those TMs. I've decided that for sanity sake, email and TMs are not a good way to communicate hurt and pain. So much get's lost when someone is not in front of you.

Something that i'm still struggling with is patience, I think i've "lost" control of my STBXWW and she has therefore in turn lost control of herself. You need to lose your control too, only then will you learn patience and find peace with your situation.

Remember, you control 3 things:

Your aspiration - You want to stay in the MR
Your attitude - You will stay Mr Cool
Your actions - You must become attractive to your W

Again, we're all rooting for you. But always think, before you act.