Got my atty invoice. Ouch. Another 6k gone. Over 25k now in atty, mostly due to the OFP slowing everything down. Plus the 32k check I gave her, so 57k!!!!! It would take her 4.5 years to make that much if she put every dime against it. I feel I have lost so much.... I worked so hard, just to give her half my stuff, plus this 57k! Plus the 18k she has spent out of the joint account since BD. Plus 1500+ a month in child support is likely. Plus all the heartache. Even if she came back, even if I could forgive her, we'd never be the same financially, never!
