hi Cali.
i too want that family united and my kids to have that normal life we all intended for our kids. you are like me. the door is open .. not by much but it all depends on the STBXW.

nothing wrong with that. you live your life the best you can and what ever happens - happens.

Before BD you never expected her to flip this switch and bring crazy town home. That switch could flip back and she could want to really fix things. Life is full of unknowns. Or, you could go for a bike ride and at the gas pump next to you on a Harley could be your dream girl and soul mate. Let life happen.

cheers to you my friend. Your story is so important to me. I draw from your strength.

Irish

M51
XW43 (38 at bd)
BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015