Phew that was a roller coaster. You dont know how many of us was getting heart attacks reading your sich. We all feel your pain and you improving your R is a shared win for us to.

Great that you both are going to go MC. Find an outlet, do your thing. My IC would say be Super Coconut.

Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.