Toast - burnt or just right

[rich4j]

JimK...thanks for the support and glad you got your place settled. Your sitch makes me look like a walk in the park but many of us have the same aligned emotional rollercoaster that just rocks your entire being

More ups and downs today with the L's. She continues to flip flop and agrees then disagrees frustrating both of our L's.

As we are heading down the highway to D and both of us not being in the same house in the next few weeks or so, she has a heightened level of blame and anger towards me

That is the part that kills me & seems to be a major symptom of the WAW/H. Throw your blame at others and not take ownership

I continue to read the stories here and many are similar in the wrong start leading to the wrong ending. I like reading the ones who got here early enough to try to make a difference.

I often wonder if I did leave and we separated when things went sideways this prior summer if it would be different now? She said a few times I wish you took my advice and left for a while..we may not be in this situation.

But then I snap back to reality and I do think it would be the same outcome but worse for me from a legal perspective. She had no intention of R and went down the other path.....