Thanks for the advice. I keep on keeping on. I'm actually very happy some days, and I tell myself I'll be fine no matter what happens. He said last night he knows he "needs to make a decision" and I said "I not putting pressure on you. There is no hurry." and he responded, "I know."
M 25 T 29 D 22 S 18 BD 9-11-15 H says he's ambivalent about staying in the marriage