She referred to you as "his father" because that is who you are.
You are his father. No reason to be looking any further in to it
This is why detaching and GAL is so important right now
You need to be there as his father and that is it. You need to be becoming the man that you can be. A man that any woman would turn down is an idiot.
DBing is all about that. It's about becoming the person you can be and that may save your marriage. It may not but you still win anyways


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it