So are you guys saying that I'm wrong in thinking that a wife that was having an A less than month ago should not be joking about sex with male friends that I don't even know??? That confuses me, I'm not saying I handled it well, but when trust is an issue I would expect that she would be careful to not step outside the bounds of what's appropriate...
And she says that it was just a joke and she doesn't see why it would bother me, but she deleted it not knowing I'd already seen it. Why delete it if she didn't think there was anything wrong with it? And why delete other texts if she's trying to gain trust... Giving someone access to censored material isn't any access at all.
From where I stand, these are very legitimate concerns. She has to earn back your trust and should have said she was sorry rather than defending it. That said, it's not your concerns man, it's your anger. It took over completely. I've felt it myself, but the only one who hears it is my dog (I've told him sorry too lol).
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
