Here’s one of my favorite conversations, this happened in the middle of the arguing right before she filed the OFP
W: I know, you always say there is something wrong with my brain Me: no, I never said that, we are having a communication problem. The intent of what I say is not what you hear. We need to figure out what is going wrong
Next day W: I can't believe you said there is something wrong with my brain Me: no, you said that, and I said we are having a communication problem
Next day W: I still can't believe you said there is something wrong with my brain Me: no, you said that, and I said we are having a communication problem. Do you remember that or not? W: yeah, I guess I do
Oh how I am going to miss talking to her.
IC guessed that she rehearsed the feeling in her head so many times that she went from thinking that I think that to believing I SAID that.
