What Should I be doing (4)

[Coconut]

W - I'm not f'n anyone & I never have but you can get the f away from me if you'd like
M - My guess this started with innocent joking too, then went to reserved only for you... Not very funny to me (picture of her text with OM when she said whats under my underwear is reserved only for you)
M - then you say you want to work on us, give you space, so I try but in the meanwhile you continue joking
M - so no, I don't think I'm over reacting

(really goes down hill from here)
M - I think we need to call a realtor
W - I'm not calling a realtor. It's not happening
W - Sorry that I upset you, I really am but you are completely wrong in this situation. It was a joke, nothing more
W - If you want to move out then I can't stop you but I'm staying in that house until Son leaves for college & that's not up for discussion.
W - I won't joke around anymore since it obviously upsets you
M - it's not joking, it's your total lack of respect for me, I won't stand for it.
M - then you need to figure out how to get $ to buy me out
(gonna leave some of this out, but basically says I'm a scumbag because I would make my son move his last two years of highschool, I say that it's just a house, he's gonna be more upset about not living with me)

W - I'm a fn incredible mother! I made a mistake which was mostly caused by the shitty husband you've been for the last 2 years but I never thought you would do this. Eyes wide open.

W - i'll pay you your half over time. You will get everything that's coming to you, I promise.
M - R you seriously threatening me
W - WTF are you talking about
M - You will get everything that's coming to you, sounds like a threat to me
W - Are you dumb? I sadi you would get the money over time.
W - All this over a harmless joke. That's really a shame.
M - All this about me wanting to trust you.. And you doing things that make me believe I can't

then silece for 5 minutes

W - I'm sorry that you feel as if I disrespected you. That was in no way my intention. There is absolutely no reason to think anything is not any way, shape or form with him. It was seriously just a joke. It was on FB so it's not like I'm trying to hide the joke. If I thought that it was inappropriate or if something was going on why would I joke with someone on an open forum. I mean really, think about it for a second. The fact that I joked with him in the open should tell you theres nothing to worry about. If I was doing something wrong then I wouldn't do something to call your attention to it.

W - The fact of the matter is there is nothing going on with anyone at all. I've apologized to you for one horrible mistake that I made yet it seems as if it's your mission to make me pay for it for the rest of my life.

W - Your actions make me stand offish towards you.

W - Nothing else but you keep creating something that's just not there.