I want to tell OM W for her sake, it's not about the OM at all. I don't care about him, but the OM W has only been married less than 2 years, I went on her facebook page to see who she was, she had posted something that mentioned having kids and her mother was all over having grandkids.. it makes me sad to think about her having kids with someone that cheats within the first 2 years of marriage. I assure you wanting to tell her is for her sake, not to hurt OM.
but that really doesn't matter, the $hit just hit the fan. we where in a meeting at work, it was boring so I went on facebook and my W had posted something that said exercise and tequila both make you look better, which do you choose. I went into the comments and a firefighter friend of hers said I choose!!! and they commented back and forth then my W commented "if it's not exercise in a gym we are talking about, I know what you would choose" ... then I think my W saw me on facebook so she went in and deleted a bunch of the comments.. I looked at her and then the texts started (this is bad).
her - What? M - you really think the comments were appropriate? W - Seriously, it was a joke M - A married woman flirting is not a joke, it's totally in every way wrong. W - That's disgusting! There was absolutely no flirting going on! W - you seriously need to stop. It was a freaking joke. Not flirting. You just think that if I speak to someone from the opposite sex it's flirting which is ridiculous.
M - then why delete it, talking about sex with a man is flirting W - Ugh, I can't even with you! I deleted it because I knew you would overreact & act ridiculous. M - and what else do you delete, great [censored] way to earn my trust. W - LOL M - talking about sex, and I'm over reacting W - I'm not talking about sex! I don't delete [censored]. That was one freaking joke that I knew would cause you to overreact, this is so ridiculous
M - I know you delete other stuff, I've seen it W - lol, ok M - what is dick heat (a text from fake boob friend she deleted) W - what are you talking about, I have no idea. What is it? M - you deleted the text, I have no idea what it is, I can only guess. W - Lol, there was never any text that said anything about dick heat. Ive never heard of such a thing.
(this is where I started DBing
M - if your not going to respect the sanctity of marriage, then you need to get out of it. Cause im not willing to be married to someone who isn't (shoulda stopped here)
W - Your full of [censored] at this point. Making things up. W - Listen I didn't do anything wrong. If me joking pissed you off then I'm sorry but you are making way more out of it then there is. This is beyond ridiculous. It was a [censored] joke. W - I guess I won't joke anymore because you are too freaking sensitive
M - It was a sex joke... There seems to be a lot of that with you two W - Henry is gross. He's harmless & jokes around with everyone. You are making way too much out of this. M - No I'm not, you know where we are and the fact that you can't even stop yourself in this fragile time lets me know how you feel.. actions speak louder than words
W - I can't stop myself from what extactly? Joking? Seriously? M - About sex with guys, it's no joking, it's flirting. If you wanna do that you need to be single W - I AM NOT FLIRTING WITH HIM!!! that is ducking GROSS!!! He is disgusting!!!
M - Cause lord knows you don't wanna joke with your husband (oops) M - Don't you get it, it's not the person, it's your mindset. W - My husband stalks me and picks fights with me & overreacts. That's why we don't joke
FORGIVE ME DB Friends for what I'm about to text M - Your husband wants to know if your f'n other guys so he can get the f away from you if you are
W My mindset is, I was just having a laugh. Not a whole lot of deep thoughts went in to a f'n joke since it meant absolutely nothing.
