Be strong. This is just a small example of what I have referred about the WW seeing how things will be without her H. Sometimes it may be in practical matters, and sometimes it may be emotional......but she needs to experience it. Your job is not to play Mr. Fixer, but to stand back and let her figure out what to do. If you help her, then you are enabling her to think you are still available to her.
Time for her to put her big girl panties on!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!