One message said something to the extent of, he's handling it a lot better now, he's treating it as a 6 month break and not me (her) leaving <---this last word I can't remember I know it's a matter of semantics if she said leaving, splitting, breaking up, etc...
I'd say, based on how a WW thinks, that she wants her H to understand it's not a "break" she wants, and that she really means it's over. Sometimes, during the begging and deal making from the H, he will suggest that she take a break and then see how she feels.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
