Vanilla,

I hope you recover from your pneumonia soon. Physical illness can wear you down emotionally. You may just be experiencing this because you are sick right now...

I'm so sorry for everything you have gone through and I'm so glad you're out of it.

You know that I am in the middle of extracting myself and my emotions from the ties to a man who was emotionally and verbally very manipulative and exploitative, if not outright abusive. It's not that I don't want to acknowledge the abuse, it's just that I save the word for the type of treatment you experienced. Thank you for your openness and contributions, they have been very helpful to me.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17