I truly do believe she is in a crisis. It's just a point of waiting her out and/or seeing if the loss of her kids, home, etc is enough to make her see if that community is worth it.
Like I said - maybe I'm the winner. I have my three kids, in our house and my motorcycle.
I agree your W has not hit rock bottom. Neither has mine. My STBX was shaken a bit today but MIL enabling keeps her from hitting rock bottom so not sure any WSW/WW ever gets there.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
