No - just that everything about me was bad. She did tell me a little about what initially attracted her to me. But, now the only thing she cares about is he work and the people in her online community/industry. She expected me to blindly support her - despite her bad behaviour etc.

I've been moving ahead on one of the biggest pieces of info from my DB coach - don't believe anything she says and only half of what she does.

I truly do believe she is in a crisis. It's just a point of waiting her out and/or seeing if the loss of her kids, home, etc is enough to make her see if that community is worth it.

Like I said - maybe I'm the winner. I have my three kids, in our house and my motorcycle.


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017