You are acting on your feelings.TThat is understandable.But feelings change and hence should not be the basis of your actions. Think this through more, please. I am not saying you need to snuggle but you need to be sure it is in your bests interest.

Your W cannot give you what you want right now. You feel rejected and hurt by this. You feel pathetic to give affection that is nit reciprocated.These feelings are normal and justified. I am sure you feel much mote than that. But try to remove your feelings from your decisions and your actions.

Work towards a better R, not away from a bad one.

Have you had any fun today? Did you laugh today? Any fin plans lined up?


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together