Coffee, thanks for your words. STBXW sent me yesterday an email because she wants to meet. Besides other things, she writes that we have to show the kids that life will smile at them and that we are here to help them at that, although now walking a different path from the one initially foreseen and desirable. The use of this last adjective is interesting. It is the first time in a very long time that STBXW mentions that marriage would be more desirable for the kids. Her narrative has been that divorce and the kids having two families is just a different thing, neither better or worse. It means nothing, but it was nice to read it.
Me43 W39 M 12y,T 15y S09,S07 Bomb Jun14 Sleeping separately Jan/Mar15 Share bed Mar/May15 Reconcile Jun15 Aug15 W sais D will happen D told to kids Sept15 W moved out with kids 01 October15