Kyle, it sounds like your turning the corner, or at least recognizing that you need to... Baby steps my friend, you can't get where your going if you never start moving forward.
As for helping out, instead of giving money, give the goods your kids need. Bring food for the kids, diapers, toys, whatever they need, just not money. You don't want to support your W in her choice, but you do have a responsibility for your kids.
Kyle, this is great advice. Take it! You're still thinking of the family dynamic, she does not. You are Dad, and will take care of your children.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
