One of the things I was afraid of in the beginning (the list was long), was having people find out I was S and becoming a social outcast. Well, that sort of happened. Not specifically because I am D, but because I don't fit into the couples social circle anymore. And it's OK. I have new friends now who have never met mr p, and don't really care. They like me for me. I wish that for you (((Grl))).